If you have seen the movie, you know the scene where Doug gets hit with bug guts and as Bobby and Dudley pass him, they laugh. Well, they get hit more times than Doug was. At this point, Woody is passing them and laughs hysterically only to be hit with a black bird which is worse than the other 3 experienced.
The point of this scene is to not enjoy other’s struggles because yours may be worse than theirs. In Matthew and Luke, God says “do not judge lest ye be judged also.” My experiences have led me to be careful what I say about others’ sins because I am likely to get that same exact challenge that I judged them on and fail the test myself worse than they did. Even simple judgements such as look what she/he is wearing, we don’t know the situation behind the why. It’s not our job to judge only to love.
Lead with love and you can’t go wrong. God will guide you thru the dark valley because He alone is the light